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Organization 101.

Challenge number 1. Arrange arrange arrange.
Directions: Arrange the list accordingly.

[ ] Your kids.

[ ] Your in-laws, leaving in a few hours.

[ ] Your hubby on the phone.

Inlove ka ba or Love mo siya?

INLOVE ka ba or LOVE mo sya? kala ko dati pareho lang iba pala!! basahin para maliwanagan naman tayo. It's definitely different when you love someone and when you're inlove with someone explanation: alin nga ba ang mas malalim? Loving someone or Being in love with someone? marami sa atin ang na confuse tungkol dito. Ikaw ba ay may girlfriend o boyfriend ngayon? Mahal mo ba siya pero parang may isang tao na parang mahalaga din sayo. o may mahal ka na akala mo eh mahal mo nga siya pero meron ka pa rin isang tao na minamahal ng totoo. Kapag love mo ang isang tao masaya ka.. Feeling mo ok na ang lahat... pero ang ma-inlove ka, ang siyang pinakamasakit sa lahat! Kasi ang mga taong inlove ay ang mga taong nagsasakripisyo at nagpaparaya.

Teka bakit ka nga ba nagpaparaya? Dahil ba hindi ka niya mahal o dahil hindi ka siguradong ok lang sa kanya? Kung yan ang dahilan mo, walang duda na inlove ka nga sa kanya. Kasi iniisip mo kung anong meron kayo sa ngayon ang tanging mahalaga at kontento ka na.

Pero isipin mo paano kung mawala ang taong yon at talagang hindi na kayo mag-usap at magkita, kaya mo ba? Paano naman kung sayo siya inlove at ibinigay niya ang lahat para sayo pero hindi mo napahalagahan ang lahat ng ito kaagad! Paano kung isang araw naguluhan na siya sayo ng husto at maisipang lumayo na lang? Paano kung sa sobrang pagiging iba mo sa kanya dika na niya kausapin at tuldukan na niya ng tuluyan kung ano na ang meron kayo? Then bigla mong na realize kung gaano ka importante sayo ang bawat isa kaya lang wala na siya! Kaya mo ba? Kung hindi ang sagot mo, malinaw na inlove ka nga...

Paano naman pag mahal mo lang, kapag mahal mo lang, alam mo na lagi kang may choice, ayaw mo siyang mawala dahil alam mong wala kang ipapalit. Yung masaya ka sa kanya pero sa gabi hindi naman siya ang iniisip mo. Mahal mo siya pero aminado ka sa sarili mo na balang araw hindi siya ang pakakasalan mo. Mahal mo siya pero ang puso mo hindi lang pra sa kanya.. Mahal mo at masasaktan ka pagnawala siya pero alam mo na kaya mo yon.

Ngayon anong nararamdaman mo ngayon: DO YOU LOVE SOMEONE or YOU'RE INLOVE WITH SOMEONE? Isang araw magigising ka na lang na INLOVE ka na nga pero kahit anong gawin mo ay huli na. Dahil maaaring yung taong INLOVE din sayo ay wala na pala.

Tandaan mo: Masyadong mapaglaro ang puso huwag tayo magpaloko!!! We learn to love someone pero minsan lang dumating sa atin ang pagkakataong ma-inlove!!! Kaya kapag dumating ito, ano ang gagawin mo?

- by eMCee

Missing her... sooooo much.

Every little thing you do is tragic All my life, oh was magic Beautiful girl I can't breathe I got a disease Deep inside me Makes me feel uneasy baby I can't live without you Tell me what I am supposed to do about it Keep your distance from it Don't pay no attention to me I got a disease I think that I'm sick But leave me be while my world is coming down on me You taste like honey, honey Tell me can I be your honey Be, be strong Keep telling myself it that won't take long till I'm free of my disease

Wala Nang Hahanapin Pa

Mayroon siyang estilong kanya lamang Ang kanyang pagkababae ang dinadahilan Pagsubok sa pag-ibig walang katapusan 'Di naman daw nagdududa, naniniguro lang. Ewan ko ba ngunit kahit ganyan siya, Minamahal ko siya, wala nang hahanapin pa. Kahit ano'ng sabihin ng iba, minamahal ko siya, Wala nang hahanapin pa. 'Di raw nagseselos ngunit nagbibilang ng oras 'pag ako'y ginagabi At biglang maamo 'pag may kailangan 'Pag nakuha na ikaw ay itatabi. Ewan ko ba ngunit kahit ganyan siya, Minamahal ko siya, wala nang hahanapin pa. Kahit ano'ng sabihin ng iba, minamahal ko siya, Wala nang hahanapin pa. 'Di magpapatalo 'pag mayroong alitan. 'Di aamin ng mali, magbabagong isip lang. Ewan ko ba ngunit kahit ganyan siya, Sinasamba ko siya, Minamahal ko pa, Walang kaduda-duda, Wala nang hahanapin pa.

- Wala Nang Hahanapin Pa Apo Hiking Society

da wan dat got awi

In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who ill always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with...and the one that got away.

Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the hemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.

I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.

How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big; inconsequential become deal breakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.

Then one day you're ready. You really are. And when this happens you'll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready. It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll make sense, it really will.

So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you've become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.

You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?" You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?" That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "What if?" you'll have in your life.

If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Believe me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you're
mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often, but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens.

Maybe the one that got away is the one who's already married. In which case it's the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice little smile to your lips in the future when you're old and gray and reminiscing.

But if neither of that is the case, then it's different. What do you do if it's not yet too late? Simple...find him, find her. Because the very existence of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one?

Ask him out to coffee, ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. You'd be surprised, you just might be "the one that got away" as well for the person who is your "the one that got away."

You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won't make a difference. If the timing is finally right, it'll all just fall into place somehow and you know, I'm thinking, it would be a great feeling, in the end, to be able to say to someone, "Hey you, you're the one that almost got away."

The heart...

The heart is always standing in the way of everything an individual does. Whether it be work, play, or simply hanging around. It affects every movement of the human carcass. It always has a factor in decision-making. One thinks whether what he feels is the best, rather than what he already knows. He tries to fulfill what his heart tells him to do, he does it and feels like it was the right thing to do. But in the end, the heart will sometimes or most likely be the loser of the game. The only competition the heart will win is the love of another individual. It does not need the help of the mind or any other factor in making the right verdict. With the right attitude and approach, the game of love will always be won by the heart... - Anonymous.

"Ok Lang"

Hindi ba minsan napakadaling sabihin ng salitang ok lang. Napaka limit gamitin na salita, na sa sobrang limit hindi natin napapansin na pababa ng pababa ang antas o lebel ng pinagagamitin ng sa salitang "ok lang"

Sinisisi ko ang salitang to ngayon. Dahil sa salitang ito napakaraming tao at bagay ang wala sa pagunlad. Stagnant. Prente. Hinto. Tigil. Walang pagbabago.... meron palang pagbabago... sa pabuti o sa pa-sama bahala na kayo kung papano nyo titingnan...pero sa ngayon... sa aking pananaw... ng dahil sa saling "ok lang!" bumababa ang kalidad ng mga bagay.

musta grades mo? musta buhay natin ngayon? musta trabaho? malusog ba? pangit ba? mabait ba? --- "ok lang"

naalala ko nung kabataan ko, noong panahon na ako ay elementarya pa lamang... sa tuwing itatanong ng aking mga magulang kung kumusta ang grades ko... isa lang ang pwedeng sagot... mataas ... o mababa. pwede rin na yung grades mismo ang sagot sa tanong..."89" po! (uy! uso pa kasi sa amin ang po at ang opo hehe!). bibihira or napaka dalang kang merong maririnig na sumasagot ng "ok lang".

eh bakit ko nga ba sinisi ang letseng salitang ito eh hindi ko nman pala ganun kadalas gamitin nun? well, noon yun! ngayon malimit ko na itong sabihin..para maiwasan ang mas madaming tanong at para safe sa palo ...sagot ko "ok lang".

pero sablay di ba? mali? kasi sa halip na sabihin natin kung oo o hindi , abat sagutin ba naman ng "maybe"? hehehe..


eh bakit ko nga sinisisi?

sa aking palagay...at ito ay sa akin lang naman... bumababa kasi ang ibig sabihin ng ok lang? paano? isipin natin nung tayoy mga bata pa?

tuwing dumarating ang panahon ng pasukan at syempre pag pasukan meron peridical exam, mahabang pagsusulit ika nga, halos lahat ng magka ka klase nagtatanong kung ano ang nakuha ng bawat isa. "ano ang nakuha mo sa exam? mababa 85 of 100 lang". " perfect", "89 over 100", "bagsak".
eh asan dyan ang ok lang? dati kung makakuha ako ng 88 yun ok lang yun! 85 "pasa", hindi masyado ok. "75" hindi ok. at kung hindi ok ang result ng exam mo, o hindi masyado ok...magsusumikap ka para makabawi sa susunod. gagawin mong "stepping stone" ang mga natutuhan mo at mga mali mo sa nagdaang exam. para yung "ok lang" maging "ok na ok!" o pasang pasa.


ngayon? narining mo na ba ang mga batang magaaral? pag tinanon mo kung ano yung grade nila sagot agad sa yo "ok lang!". pagkita mo sa card sus namamalakol! (isang saling naglalarawan ng mga grado mula 70-79, palakot nga eh 7). Errrr... eh kelan pa naging ok yun? siguro nga ok lang kasi yun ang nakayanan eh... pero kulang...bakit ka makukuntento sa kung ano yung nakuha mo? kung alam mong meron ka pang igagaling?

hindi bat bumaba na ang definition ng salitang "ok lang!". dati 88 ngayon 76 ok lang din, katwiran? -- kasi hindi pa daw bagsak.

simpleng example lang yan. pero napakaraming bagay pa na pwede mong mahalintulad. sa kalusugan na lang... sinong magsasabi ng ok lang ang kondisyon ng maynila ngayon..at ng mabatukan sa ngala ngala? kelan pa naging ok ang pollusyon? ang mga sakit ng makukuha mo sa maduming lansangan... sa mga daga at ipis na naglipana sa kung saan saan lang.

sana minsan kaya nating sagutin at tanggapin ang mga bagay bagay. at pagkatapos, mas higitan pa natin. sabi nga nila " we move forward, improving lives". kung dati si juan ay walang ni isang kusing, ngayon ay meron ng sampung piso....hindi nangangahulugan yun na " ok lang". ibig lang sabihin nun nagbabago ang lahat. sa pataas. sana yung yung salitang "ok lang" magbago din patungo sa maganda.

ang mga magulang mo ay nagpakahirap para mabago ang kinabukasan mo. kung dati kayo ay wala, ngayon kayo ay medyo guminhawa...hindi ibig sabihin noon maginhawa na kayo lagi. huwag sanang mabalewala ang mga sinimulan ng magulang nyo. wag sana kayong makuntento sa "ok lang". isang paraan paanonng hindi mababalewala ang kanilang pagsasakripisyo ay ang pagpapatuloy ng kung anong naumpisahan nila... ano nga ba yun??? ahhh ang pabutihin ang kalagayan nyo. yun lang naman.

pero kung ok lang sa inyo kung ano ang buhay nyo ngayon...at hindi na kayo kikilos... sige hayaan natin ng ang mga susunod na kabataan o ang anak mo ay magpakahirap uli. back to zero. buhay naman nila yun di ba?

"ok lang!"

-- kumilos ka! ngayon na!
-- eh sori tao lang eh
-- yun nga eh TAO KA! wag mong limitahan ang kaya mong gawin. marami kang magagagawa..

-- 09:38 05262009

Questions.

Time.

Routine.

Sacrifices.

Safety.

Future.

Order.

Faith.

No Air

Tell me how I'm suppose to breathe with no air
[oohhhh]

[ Jordin S.]
If I
Should die
Before
I wake,
Its cause
You took
My breath
Away.
Losing you is like living in a world with no air
Ohhh...

[ Chris B.]
I'm here,
Alone,
Didn't want
To leave.
My heart won't move,
It's incomplete.
Wish there
Was a way
That I can make you to understand,

(Pre-Chorus)
But How,
Do you expect me,
To live alone with just me?
'Cause my world revolves around you,
Its so hard for me to breathe.

(Chorus)
Tell me how I'm supposed to breathe with no air.
Can't live, can't breathe with no air.
That's how I feel when I know you ain't there.
There's No Air No Air.
Got me out here in the water so deep.
Tell me how you gon' be without me.
If you ain't here, I just can't breathe.
Its No Air No Air.

No air air (ohhhh)
No air air (noooo)
No air air (ohhhh)
No air air

[ Chris B.]
I Walked,
I Ran,
I Jumped,
I Flew,
Right off the ground,
To float to you.
There's no gravity,
To hold me down,
For real.

[Jordin S.]
But Somehow
I'm still alive inside.
You took my breath,
But I survived.
I don't know how,
But I don't even care.

(Pre-Chorus)
So How,
Do you expect me,
To live alone with just me?
'Cause my world revolves around you,
Its so hard for me to breathe.

( Chorus)
Tell Me How I'm supposed to breathe with no air.
Can't live can't breathe with no air.
That's how I feel when I know you ain't there.
Its No Air No Air.
Got me out here in the water so deep.
Tell me how you gon' be without me.
If you ain't here, I just can't breathe
There's No Air No Air

No air air (ohhhh)
No air air (ohhhh)
No air air (ohhhh)
No air air

uhh uhh uhh
No Air (ohhh)
uhh uhh uhh
No Air (ohhh)
uhh uhh uhh

Its No Air No Air
Heyyy..
Oooooo..
No Aiiiiiir
Oooooo..
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

(Chorus)
Tell Me How I'm supposed to breathe with no air.
Can't live can't breathe with no air.
That's how I feel when I know you ain't there.
There's No Air No Air.
Got me out here in the water so deep.
Tell me how you gon' be without me.
If you ain't here I just can't breathe.
There's No Air No Air.


Do you expect me,
To live alone with just me?
'Cause my world revolves around you,
I'ts so hard for me to breathe.


(Chorus)
Tell Me How I'm supposed to breathe with no air.
Can't live can't breathe with no air.
That's how I feel when I know you ain't there.
It's No Air No Air.

[ Jordin S.]
Got me out here in the water so deep.

[ Chris B.]
Tell me how you gon' be without me.

[ Jordin S.]
If you ain't here, I just can't breathe.

[Both]
There's No Air No Air

No air air (ohh)
No air air (ohh)
No air air (No air)